Nervous system regulation
HeartMath heart-rate-variability training, building the physiological capacity to stay clear and steady under real pressure.
Milica Krstić · Psychologist · Forbes 30 Under 30
Milica helps leaders trade harshness, with themselves and everyone around them, for real compassion: the kind that holds high performance and humanity at the same time. Grounded in nervous system research, not willpower, so the career you built stops costing you your health.
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Why strictness fails and empathy wins
Most high performers were taught that pressure demands harshness, toward themselves first. Milica’s work rests on the opposite premise: empathy is not the enemy of standards, it is what makes them sustainable. Leaders who trade self-criticism for self-regulation make clearer decisions, recover faster, and build teams that do not quietly burn out.

About
Milica Krstić is a psychologist, practitioner of integrative body psychotherapy, and entrepreneur with over six years of experience working with high performers. Her work sits at the intersection of nervous system physiology, emotion, and performance, because the two were never actually separate: how a person feels is part of how they think, decide, and lead. Milica is a HeartMath certified practitioner and a Forbes 30 Under 30 Europe lister.
Milica founded the multilingual mental health initiative Safe Space, co-founded SoulFit with Dr. Maria Gren, and is building FeelSafeHub for organizations. She is also the author of It’s Not a Big Deal.
Milica is based in Bratislava and lives between Bratislava, Vienna, Lisbon, and Belgrade. She works with clients in person and online, depending on what each client needs.
The story
For more than six years, Milica has worked with people whose lives looked successful from the outside and felt unsustainable from the inside. What she kept finding was never a lack of discipline. It was an excess of harshness, and harshness always sends its bill: to health, to relationships, to the quality of every decision.
Her work exists to change that equation, replacing strictness with empathy and self-criticism with self-regulation, so performance stops running on fear. That idea shaped everything she has built: Safe Space, the book It’s Not a Big Deal, SoulFit, FeelSafeHub, and the international practice she leads today.

She has a very caring but firm approach, and keeps you accountable for your goals.Vic Akosile · Head of AI Transformation & People Strategy, Cloudflare
The approach
The work sits at the intersection of nervous system physiology and performance: how the body holds pressure, how the mind makes decisions under load, and how both recover. It draws on integrative body psychotherapy, HeartMath heart-rate-variability training for nervous system regulation, and Systemic Constellations for the patterns sitting underneath a person’s decisions.
Sessions are practical as well as reflective: real decisions, real physiology, real calendar. Most clients notice the first meaningful shifts around the three-month mark, which is why the work is structured in seasons rather than single sessions, an approach clients’ own results and testimonials bear out.
This work does not involve clinical diagnosis or the treatment of mental health conditions. While trained as a psychologist and integrative body psychotherapist, within this practice the work stays strictly in a performance and wellbeing capacity: no clinical diagnosis, no treatment, no medical care. Tools from psychology and body-based therapy are applied to performance and business contexts, not practiced as medicine or psychotherapy.
Clients are responsible for disclosing, honestly and in full, any existing health condition, diagnosis, or relevant medical history. Working without full disclosure is at the client’s own risk.
If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency, please contact a licensed healthcare provider or emergency services in your country.
The framework
Every method below treats emotion as data, not a distraction, the body registers pressure long before the mind names it, and research consistently shows that regulating it, rather than overriding it, is what actually protects performance.
HeartMath heart-rate-variability training, building the physiological capacity to stay clear and steady under real pressure.
Four years of EABP-accredited training linking the body’s signals to the decisions and patterns playing out in someone’s work.
Surfacing the underlying dynamics, in a family, a team, or an organization, that keep repeating until they are seen.
Grounded in current research in performance psychology and nervous system science, applied to real decisions and real calendars.
The science behind the work
of waking hours are spent thinking about something other than what is happening right now, and a wandering mind consistently predicts a less happy one.
Killingsworth & Gilbert, Science, Harvard, 2010is lost every year worldwide to depression and anxiety through reduced productivity. Prevention is not soft, it is the business case.
World Health OrganizationHigher heart-rate variability, the capacity Milica trains through HeartMath, is linked to better executive function and self-regulation under stress.
Thayer et al., Neuroscience & Biobehavioral ReviewsThe science of performance
Engagements
Weekly sessions, in continuity, over three months, individual and online. The focus is on how you actually function under pressure: faster and clearer decision-making, learning to listen to the body instead of overriding it, and catching stress before it quietly becomes a serious health problem. Both prevention and crisis work.
Group work, live or online depending on what the company needs, delivered through workshops, educational trainings, and webinars, including sessions built specifically for leadership and top management.
A sustainable wellbeing strategy built and tested around one institution, company, or team’s exact needs. Typically six to twelve months, sometimes longer depending on complexity.
Projects

Schools · Co-founded with Dr. Maria Gren
An emotional-literacy programme that teaches young people the language of their emotions as a real school subject, not a one-day workshop: an eight-book curriculum, one for every school year, approved by Austria’s Directorate of Education and endorsed by the World Council for Psychotherapy. The idea began when Milica met Dr. Maria Gren at the World Congress for Psychotherapy in Vienna’s Rathaus, July 2025.
Pilot · Vienna · September 2026 Learn more
Foundational
Siguran Prostor is an online platform where psychotherapists provide free sessions to people who cannot afford psychotherapy. Milica founded and ran it from 2022 to 2025, with a simple mandate: make real psychotherapy accessible, reduce anxiety, depression, and suicide, and help lift the stigma around asking for help.
2022 to 2025 Learn moreOrganizations
A five-minute daily protocol that helps whole teams catch stress early, before it becomes burnout, absence, or a resignation letter. Built by Milica after years of watching how much earlier real support could have arrived, if anyone had been looking for the small signs instead of waiting for the big ones. Currently in beta with real companies.
Speaking
Milica speaks internationally on performance, resilience, and the human side of high-stakes work, from keynote forums in Riyadh and Vienna to the summits shaping business and leadership worldwide. Available to book as a speaker for conferences and events.














Safe Space · Conference
The first free mental health conference in the Balkans, which Milica founded and organized through her nonprofit Safe Space. Held at Regent Porto Montenegro in Tivat on 22 February 2025, it brought together eighty people to make mental health care open, public, and free across the region.






Testimonials
Present and emphatic. Those are the words that describe Milica the best. She helped me create a healthier relationship with myself and to connect with my family on a deeper level. She listened closely and filled in the gaps with useful insight exactly where I needed it. I highly recommend her.
Milica is a wonderful coach and therapist, highly qualified with many certifications. She has a very caring but firm approach and keeps you accountable for your goals. As a coach myself, it was warming to know there are people like Milica helping others become their best selves. I can't recommend her enough.
Through one-to-one coaching, Milica gives you both the space and the tools to untangle and truly reflect on your thoughts, desires and goals, and the confidence to put them into practice. I couldn't recommend her more.
Milica is a wonderful professional, deeply knowledgeable in behavioural psychology, wellbeing, and understanding emotions. Patient, empathetic, and helpful, she brings an extraordinary work ethic and real passion to all that she does.
Milica's sessions helped me tremendously, not only in recognizing my emotions but in working with the difficult ones. She is calm, patient and understanding. Over three months I built a real connection and came to understand myself better than ever before.
Insightful, patient and compassionate. If you're debating whether to work with Milica, just do it. She was transformational to my mindset, and more than a year on, I still use her methods daily. I cannot thank her enough.
Before you book
Everything is confidential. An NDA is optional for individual clients, and standard for companies and teams.
Both. Individually with leaders, one to one, or with the wider team through workshops and group sessions, including sessions built specifically for top management.
The call lasts thirty minutes. It opens with a short questionnaire, then covers how the work is structured, what it involves, and whether it is the right fit to work together. The call is free.
Yes. It can support and complement work already underway.
Milica works in English and the languages of the former Yugoslavia.
Most executive coaching stays cognitive: goals, mindset, accountability. This work adds the layer coaching usually skips, the nervous system itself. Under real pressure, the body reacts before the mind has a chance to reframe anything, so training only the thinking rarely holds when the pressure is highest. This work trains both: the psychological patterns behind decisions, and the physiological capacity, through tools like HeartMath heart-rate-variability training, to stay regulated while under load. The result is not insight alone, it is a nervous system that does not collapse the moment the stakes get real.
It is not possible to book a single session. The minimum is a three-month package, twelve sessions.
It is possible to create a custom solution for your team that does not exist in the standard offer, built around what your team actually needs.
Sessions can be rescheduled with at least twenty-four hours’ notice. All twelve sessions must be completed within four months, the three-month engagement plus one month of flexibility for both sides, to account for life and unpredictable circumstances. Sessions not used within that window cannot be carried forward. Long-term returning clients may agree to different terms, set individually.
This work is not covered by health insurance.
Contact
Milica is open to new collaborations and conversations, with leaders, companies, and institutions.
milica@feelsafehub.com